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prayer as crowd control

I was at a youth meeting recently at a local church and leaned over to a good friends and whispered, “Prayer as a crowd control.” He happened to be a veteran youth worker, and a huge grin formed over his face as he nodded repeatedly.

crowd controlHave you ever done this? I know in years past I was “guilty as charged.” You just hear the phrase and you know of what I am speaking, right?

You walk up in front of a crowd of students (or other audience) to welcome or to introduce someone or the next item on the agenda - and no one seems to be listening. You try again, repeatedly attempting to get folks attention (seconds of failure turn into a minute) and people start shushing and saying, “quiet down.” Then it happens. You raise your voice just a bit and utter the magic words, “Let’s pray.” You pause and bow your head. Just like that - shuffling stops, voices diminish and a stillness sets over the crowd.

Prayer as crowd control…

Prayer isn’t about controlling others. Prayer isn’t about pushing our agenda or a technique to acquire what we want - but too often we use it in such a fashion.

Let’s make a resolution - no more prayer as crowd control - instead let’s work harder at gaining the attention of our audience with other techniques. Let’s leave prayer as a means to give God our full attention and to align our lives to His will.

On earth, as it is in Heaven.

peace.

4 Comments so far

  1. Mike on November 4th, 2008

    I always found it easier to just go stand right by the instigators and continue talking. It was fun for me and got the point across.

  2. Peter Hamm on November 5th, 2008

    A bullhorn works great, too, but only if you’re preaching hellfire and brimstone as your prayer…

    ;-P

    Seriously, good point. It’s used with adults, too. Like when somebody stands up in a church service and prays a particular social/political agenda, and somebody who disagrees decides that church (and therefore Jesus) isn’t for him/her…

    God, make us to love YOU more, make us to love our neighbor more, make us to care about getting our own way LESS!

  3. Kyle on November 8th, 2008

    We always used prayer as a de facto “scene change” in “big church” when I was growing up. Somebody prays, the musicians leave, the pulpit is drug out, etc… then AMEN. Ta Da! empty stage with a preacher! I’m glad to see somebody notice such things!

    Kyle

  4. Doug on November 10th, 2008

    I have seen that one to, Kyle - prayer as a programmatic transition - just another element to produce our slick presentations. Seems to belittle prayer and seems a bit silly that we can’t STOP and pray with everyone in a public setting - rather than all this “set change.”

    Thanks for chiming in.

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