Where the shepherd goes; so go the sheep. We know that God calls women and men to care for, protect and oversee His people. We also know that the wounded shepherd is likely to end up in a ditch with his sheep in disarray. For individual’s who work youth - it is critical that we stay healthy. For where the shepherd goes; so go the sheep. I would say at whatever the cost - the health of the shepherd is paramount. We ultimately will do more harm than good if we are either covering up, denying, or disregarding our spiritual, emotional, relational, or physical weaknesses/illness.

Periodically we need a check-up - a time to assess and diagnose how we are doing physically, emotionally, spiritually and relationally. It is a good practice to get away from our everyday environment and be alone and be honest about “where we find ourselves.” There really is no surefire test or assessment that can give us a complete picture of our actual health - but we can ask good questions that can begin the process of painting a clearer picture. Below are some beginning questions that might help assess the “health of the shepherd.” (feel free to add some questions of your own!)

What outside interests have I been engaging in?

Have I been bored lately or seeking activities that distract me? If so why or what? Is it helping or harming?

When was the last time I felt exhileration/joy? What stimulated that sense?

Who am I befriending or relating to outside of the walls of the church?

What have I read or watched in the past weeks that has helped me think in new ways?

Am I sensing that God is nearer or more distant these days?

Am I pursuing God actively? What practices or disciplines am I pursueing?

When was the last time I had a meaningful and deep conversation with a peer or my spouse?

When was the last time I broke out of my “routine” and had a break or time off?

Have I been consumed or focused on success? Impressing others? Concerned about numbers of kids coming? Who’s expectations are driving me in what I am trying to accomplish in youth ministry?

Have I been irritable or angry? What precipitated this? Has this been a pattern

Those are some questions I rehearse on occassion. They are probably loaded questions, but hopefully will get you thinking about what prescription the Chief Shepherd might write for you to get you on your way to good health.

Where the Shepherd goes; so go the sheep.

By the way… today Jim Martin also touches on this important topic - I heartily encourage you to check it out here.